The socio girl hates to see when im doing good excelling at what i do and seeing me be happy. yes, run. Yes you must defend yourself, but that's why we have nominated the police and other institutions to enforce law. If my post doesn't sit well with you, I'd really like to know why. REUNITING EX SPELL TEMPLE IS GREAT.THANK YOU FOR THE HAPPINESS YOU BROUGHT ON ME. I just like those silly faces and lovely noises people make when it's done right.On another level, it may just be a part of his reading of you. I could not believe that there could be a person on this Earth that I could not feel emotionally! I know exactly what you mean. I have dealt with him for the past 22 years. I, always the optimist, keep feeling that if I keep the faith and keep standing by him that he will be okay. She accused me of being deceptive and I calmly accepted it "Ok, I don't see what the problem is, we are each getting what we want. You just choose not to. We refused to PLAY. Would you like to talk? I ended up paying for everything,but let him tell you "i ain't do nothing".i brought heating oil,food,payed thousands of dollars worth of debt. There may well be a shining few who try to use their special abilities to help people, but by and large you guys seem intent on exploiting our sympathy for your personal pleasure. I also didn't "beat" him by playing his game. One person feeding false information would be the anomaly, not the rule. the cortisol is, uh, damaging, you lying in general - sheepaths can do it just fine. Got human services involved and is claiming to be the victim. His / her cardboard skycraper will disintegrate very fast. She can feel the soil shifting under her feet, but doesn't know what is going on. The sociopath will almost always win in that situation. I knew a socio, he filled me full of shit about myself and about life in general...he was much older than me and i ended up telling him one day when we were chilling out that i thought he was my dad at one point, and that is why i was hanging out with him. to get back on their feet. My husband (we are separated) is a sociopath. I am thinking of sending rat poision in the form of LSD with his brothers name on the return label box. I was so mad that I told her I knew what she was and she just laughed. I have always tried to teach each *empath* that you can't controll us, you can't move us, and most importantly the only way to win is cut your losses. The problem with those sources is that they may be have some valid information, but they're about as useful as a book about becoming a millionaire. I would like to release him on his path. THE GENEALOGY OF MORALS by Nietzsche is also quite instructive.Sociopaths are easy to beat on an individual level. There all the same just a few variants. Some of them tend to enjoy the ride for a while.. that is, until I basically annihilate their dreams. :)False signals is not a bad strategy, confuse a SP and the damage they can do is usually limited... but in some cases it can in fact have a reverse effect.What folks say here is absolutely true cut your losses and run as most folks do not have the ability to deal or cope with a SP, they're often consumed with changing or helping the SP and this is rarely going to happen.Who says a SP needs help, or is a broken individual? Lying. First, judging by what you’ve described, she doesn’t sound sociopathic to me. I told him a psychic once told me long ago about him and that we would marry eventually. I had just finished dating a guy who is a sociopath. Is it worth it? Sociopaths "try" or "observe and imitate". Karma has a way of making everyone pay when they do wrong and believe me it knows how to exsact revengage the best way on anyone.Dont get into a circle of trying to one up them normal people are going to be limtied to what they will do, because you care and have remorse for others. Actually, I think that, if you think you have won, in fact you probably lost. Need to feel a little power and in control? I'm sure feelings for her are still there.I suppose even sociopaths don't all fit one mold. I don't know if folks are still commenting on this post or not, but I would love to get some insight on this one? I know not all of you sociopaths are bad apples and I did have some fun times, but it came with a cost and a lot of drama. To Anonymous on Dec 14, 2011You are not doing more harm then good, you are right, I know first hand to the point that I got my name changed and still they will destroy your life, and when one says that a sosiopath probably wont kill, yes they will, they will make you end up doing yourself in, or make it look like an accident, if they dont want you around or fear you are a therat they could take you out for a boat ride in the middle of the lake and once you are in the water they will not let you get back into the boat and they will watch you beg and suffer until you cant swim anymore and watch you drown, and they will tell who ever that this person just went under water and that was it, everyone will believe this person because she is a nurse practitioner well respected in the community, but has manipulated and lied to everyone, I fear for my children's life everyday, she said to me to never fuck with her and to do as she says, I said or else what your going to hurt me or the children she said accidents happen, she has gotten away with so much even provoked someone take their own life the sad thing is it worked, she said to me face it people listen to me and everyone does exactly what i tell them to just ask the person that took their life, and then she smiled. (how polite is that! I know, I tried, and one conclusion, you can't match wits with the devil. Comments are unmoderated. My brother was twice diagnosed as a sociopath, so to no surprise I ended up marrying one. That's my explanation to it. The reason every horror or bad thing happens in society because of these demented f*wits. The more time I spend here, the less inclined I am to show sympathy to sociopaths. Following are seven classic lies from sociopaths (people who … They have been around forever. Sociopaths make up 4% of the population. "Do your research sir: she diagnosed as a sociopath by a professional or by you?Can you beat a true sociopath? So we can skip past how to spot one. A sociopath is a person who has a false sense of superiority over others. For all that said, "feel pity" quote o bring a sociopath to their knees, it only takes a minute. So irrevelant if their lying, stealing, cheating, sleeping around, bullying, connivingly playing games..their common denomator is DECEIT and the inability to achieve by playing fair. On top of that I've studied patterns of emotions, patterns of sexual attractions, etc. One Bad Apple~If anyone is interested in why sociopaths, or any other type of "toxic" personality are so destructive to our community and our lives in general, here is a quick link to a search that has plenty of links to studies and resources.One Bad Apple *kind of makes you want to get out there and DO something*(Google search for "one bad apple" + psychological study). I know exactly what you mean. In other words, they are IN YOUR LIFE and are part of your community. I was pushed in to see a psychiatrist by court order, I have since stopped going. Sociopaths are skilled in master manipulation. Would a sociopath know that the empath was faking? Down south they seem to make an effort to be purposefully and intentionally evil,unkind,create sorrow,sow discouragement,capitalize on fear and magnify doubt in each other. No contact is best to recover. They destroy themselves. He once told me that he feels like the entire world is an illusion, like the people around him are made up characters who don't actually exist. Everyone of these disturbed repulsive demented idiots thinks their something special. Sometimes I pretended to be too stupid to understand her cruelty, leaving her to emphasize to me how she hurt or shafted me while I watched her with a vague and blank expression until she got angry and gave up. The most common one I used to deal with her was to avoid calling her on her lies and tricks because she would use this feedback to refine them. Now, I miss him? I've been in that boat before; too many times. put, lacks empathy for others and what we often call a "conscience." So you just need to stay away from these sick and disturbed hollow shells that pretend to be people. I would have to agree with the last poster. You life was nuked the day you met them. It may be very difficult, as well as dangerous to attempt to outsmart a narcissist without becoming affected. You're weakness is probably something you try hard to hide away, your source of insecurity you build your identity around. She forced homeschooling on me until I was fourteen and was my one and only influence when it came to nearly everything. Throw a seed so they will start a witch hunt. You are desperately trying to hold onto something you can understand but the thing is that you don't know how sociopaths think and fling around your ignorant little ideas(like "they don't feel anything") that are wrong but easier for you to understand, NO, your ignorant and have NO Clue what you are talking about. I know that my feelings are distorting reality and the only sober thought in my mind is to run and never look back. Give them no quarter. That's not logical. In the end she almost wrecked my marriage. Why? This is a serious diagnosis and needs to be done by a mental health professional ... Others would probably notice before you do. You can feel trapped in … He's diagnosed as bipolar/schizophrenic. Trying to match wits with this monster will take your focus off of you, and life is too short for that. The sex part of sex is really the least entertaining bit in my mind. Theyre infantile losers. And now I'm at the point where some others have been. He keeps asking and I play along like I will. Her quality of life improved. We dated for a few more weeks and the lies became apparent. all for the same purpose. You don't have to be some self loathing loser with low self esteem to be a victim of such miscreants, sometimes being popular and well liked can make one a target of these nuts. Anyway the twat won the game in a very underhand, scumb bag way! Pie is gratifying, as is getting a job, or understanding a conflict. He recently asked me to purchase MORE equipment. Socios count on YOUR inability to live up to be the person you claim you want to be."Thanks. in my case i have to work this physco. Cuz this is getting boring and people are kind of starting to loop. If you know someone is going to steal, would you attempt to stop it? I've been involved with 1 for 6 months, my own fault as knew he weren't right so didn't love him or anything, guess I was playing him too just for sex as it was good and suited me. in a way you're mentally speak down to empaths because they have something you'll never have and it consoles you to think youre in some way greater. It all can be used against you If that person does still manage to do get something by you DO NOT SHOW THEM YOU ARE BOTHERED THAT! You have been steered in an other direction.One that was'nt even you own choice. I've had my fair share of boyfriends, all of whom I broke up with myself, and one girlfriend whom we simply drifted apart, but all said and done, I've never loved any of them.>>>. Freaked the fool out(as he even abandoned his own kids). Normal is boring to him. They are trying to manipulate you and the other person for their own advantage. When you feed him false information, it ends up like one of those dry British farces where misunderstandings they deserve to be the subject of your ridicule if one of them has victimized you, right? I never could grasp that it really is a choice. Try reading Erich Fromm, he's not as biased as some of the other psychs. :)Marc My hsuband says i am, but i've only been tested for stds. Each plays their best cards. Sociopathy does not confer intelligence. I was her object of hatred growing up. I get this question all the time, and my answer is always the same: don't try to win.. I could never say that I "beat" him in so many ways, but I do know that sociopaths tend to want to be in control of their victims. So how about you actually address your own topic and give some real input as to how to beat a sociopath. When you're honest to the point of fault with your friends the asymmetrical versions of the stories the socio has told you will become apparent. Trained volunteers should keep you busy for years so you do no real harm to others. I can have emotion and be rational, maybe not completley but hey i can be more rational than sociapaths can be emotional, so i'm in a better position morally and existentially. To simply refuse to expend any energy on the matter other than what you would to deal (personally) with yourself. Shout it from the rooftops because however gullible people are this will always strike a chord. They are quite easy to spot and therefore outsmart. It doesn’t work the same as our brains. The modern clinical term for sociopathy is antisocial personality disorder. Just remember without conscience there can be no good. Money and power and cunning can never buy that kind of happiness.You're an empath. I promised him a lot. So we can skip past how to spot one. Stop being played! The sociopath is fighting for an anti-relationship, and rarely, it seems, bothers to consider their victim might decide it is a waste of time to convince them otherwise. . Man, he really knows how to play me. I'm rather insulted, actually. the SP i suffer with has power/control over me more so also because he is an energy vampire-- he does some scary and powerful things to me metaphysically--black magic he's always assuring himself dominance over me. ), but everyone is different. Now she tells us what to actually do about it. One night my socio decided he wanted me to submit but i didn't care to play the game anymore. So Really How great are they ?...Incomplete as far as I can tell ...Lacking . My question is this--now that I realize I have been manipulated and used just for my money, my plan was to see him, play along like he is my best friend still, pack up the equipment (it's portable) while he is sleeping and leave without saying goodbye. Something awful about bending the muscles in my face to express pleasure in the thought of being given the room I hated so much. Defeating ? From my experience and perspective, I think it's time, and long overdue, I might add, to ditch mommy. Outsmarting a Narcissist is a science. 5? I found receipts and she would look at me in the eyes and tell me what I was looking at wasnt there. They might show some flashes of kindness and good heartedness, but it is usually driven by an aspect of self interest. The advice given here will only work if you are as good a liar and manipulator as the sociopath themselves, in which case you are probably a sociopath yourself. Sociopaths are a bunch of evil pukes. 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